For example, in a wealth seminar, Tony Robbins
But as a newbie I often fall for the thinking trap that says—this doesn’t make sense, so I cannot trust the rest of his advice.
Well, I don’t think like that anymore but the point is this. When you disagree with one thing, don’t take that one thing and use it as an excuse to discard all the other things that do makes sense.
A piece of advice is fundamentally nothing more than an opinion. It is not carved in stone. Somebody is sharing his/her personal experience and the theories they have built around them based on their own belief systems.
You have different belief systems so naturally some of the theories are not going to makes sense.
Think about it like going up a mountain.
Your guru is on top of the mountain, you are at the bottom. You ask your guru describe the path to me so I can navigate better.
The guru describes the path looking down..and he also describes scenery which you cannot see.
The path is not the same as visible from these two positions. Of course his description might not make complete sense to you at this point. But do not take that which doesn’t makes sense and go—this doesn’t make sense…so the rest must be absurd also. This is going to be the default tendency because thinking like this gives you an excuse to stay in your comfort zone.
Don’t fall for this.
Whatever works, just take it and apply it. And soon the stuff that was absurd once will start making sense too.
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